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Post by Jupiter on Mar 20, 2022 10:34:24 GMT
Being single Being single can be refreshing at times.
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Post by Jupiter on Mar 20, 2022 10:36:59 GMT
Being single can be refreshing at times.
Some people can't stand being single, they always need to affirmation of another or others in order to feel whole.
Then others, through choice or fate, simply have no choice but to be single and learn to live with it, and may even begin to enjoy it.
And sometimes all it takes is one bad relationship to realize how joyful it can be to be single.
Being single and feeling sexually lonely are two different things though.
Sexuality is more biology, many people may desire sex, but still want to be single.
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Post by Jupiter on Mar 20, 2022 10:41:04 GMT
I'm at a point in my life where others bring more noise into my life than anything benefiscial.
When alone, things are pretty simply and straight forward, when paired, things get complicated.
There's no one fit for all.
I think over all you prosper more when in a healthy paired relationship, I think it's better for the mind and body to be in a healthy relationship, but that's the key word there 'healthy'.
Cause if the relationship isn't healthy than it can become toxic to your being.
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Post by Jupiter on Mar 20, 2022 10:46:04 GMT
I mean look at the whole Kanye West Kardashian break up.
Kanye West about to lose his mind.
One of the richest men in America, Kanye, reduced to behaving like an adolescent kid having a fit cause can't get their way.
Kardashian has moved on, and so should he, but he can't, even with all the riches in the world, Kanye can't move on, and his ego is getting the better of him.
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Post by Jupiter on Jun 4, 2022 23:37:13 GMT
The thing of it is, if I really wanted to be in any ole relationship, there's so many desperate poor women out there on the streets, I see them every day, like Hotel type women, always walking with ghetto black dudes.
I mean if all I wanted was 'to be the boss', and ect, fine.
If all I wanted was sex, fine, but that's not all I want, I've always wanted more, and maybe that's why I'm still single.
I've always wanted a real relationship where woman was equally as attracted to me as I was to them.
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Post by Jupiter on Jul 12, 2022 23:20:51 GMT
I think single people tend to take better care of themselves than those who are paired or married, I wonder why that is?
Single people, I guess cause are single, still seem to value health and fitness over those who are married or paired, particulalry men or males.
Most men I see in relationships, just seem to lose it once they win over a woman, or man ect...
Also, when single, there's no one to look out for you if get sick, so single people tend to take their fitness more seriously.
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Post by Jupiter on May 7, 2023 13:46:44 GMT
Sometimes I wonder if trying to find love and romance at this stage and age in life is useless?
I think at this stage of my life, and age, maybe the only thing I should be focusing on or trying to marry is success and or money.
I mean the whole romance and dating thing takes two people who are equally dedicated andd or see value in one another, and no woman seems to see value in me, no woman or man, as far as that goes.
People think they want what they want, and if you don't neatly fit every notch in their 'I want' niche perfectly, than seems they just grow cold on you, not realizing you are what they want and need but they can't see that.
They, women, want a 'check the box' type of companion which doesn't really exist in real life. Successful relationships realize relationships are more about dedication and friendship than it is about 'checking the right box' type of mindset that many women have been duped into these days.
There may be 99 boxes that check out fine, but if they come across one box where, in their mind, you don't check out fine, than they just toss you aside.
Then, the same women who tossed you asied, ends up getting with a bum who checks no boxes, and they do this out of lustful loneliness, have the bums baby, and end up being a single mother.
You see it all the time everywhere now.
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Post by Jupiter on May 7, 2023 13:50:21 GMT
I think I'm just to old to go through the whole ups and downs of trying to court another, and the pain and joy that comes with it.
It can really mess with your emotions, one day you think they like you, the next day they don't answer the phone, you give up, then they call, and whatever...it can really drain you and distract you.
Is why best to meet someone through a common interest than just on romance, cause if you both have a common interest, it's that common interest that will keep you in touch, rather than the idea of 'do they love me or not' type of adolescent stuff.
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Post by Jupiter on May 7, 2023 13:52:20 GMT
I think I'd rather be or feel lonely, than go through the pain of breaking up with someone, or having someone reject you.
Jelousy, and all the crap that comes with the early stages of a relationship....fighting, getting insulted, name calling, like it all comes with the package if in a relationship.
Is it worth it anymore, no.
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Post by Jupiter on Oct 1, 2024 6:13:17 GMT
I still remember years ago when Dennis Rodman married himself, and it was all covered live on TV.
I wonder if that's a concept that will come back in vogue?
Was he way ahead of his time with that?
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