What do you call someone who wants to be sexy, but is 'celibate'? 
I mean what role does gender play, when one is alone and celibate?
When alone and celibate you can't really be LGB but possibly could be 'Q'? or 'T'?, and even those words to 'defining' and kind of tainted.
What if one just wants to be 'soft', their natural self?, what's that called?
So many people cheat themselves out of being who they really are if didn't have to put on a public act all the time.
I think there's definetely a time to 'be a man', and a time to 'be a woman', but not always.
Not in todays society anyways.
If on a farm, ye sure, the men should be tough and hunt and protect, but if living life in some stuffy apartment in Manhattan, than what's really the role of a single, celibate male?
Oh I forgot the term 'Androgynous'.
I think some desire to just be Androgynous meaning having a gender nuetral appearance and or flair about them.
To me, people like that are lucky, but you pretty much have to be born that way, genetics and all.
And not every male who is soft, wants to be a female, is why careful about using the term 'cross dresser'...
The person above, if you notice, is not wearing female clothing, they're wearing male clothing and behaving in a Androgynous manner.
Grace and smooth movements are not gender specific, but in the West it seems that way do to film and how women/men project in movies.
But it's taught, for there is no way to act like a female when you think about it.
Women in Russia living in villiages 100 years ago didn't walk around half naked and ect, instead they were very rugged women, more rugged than some men actually, and the women lived a very practical hard life, and were in the fields most of the time.
Anyways, will elaborate on this in the future.
I also wish people in the LGBTQ had more humor, and could show selves in a more humorous lite instead of serious all the time and or 'nasty', it's like there's no middle ground.
Every time you see a cross dresser or Trans in the media they're always like in the adult industry, well what about just normal Trans who get up and work 9-5?
That would be tough to do in the blue collar world, that's for sure, later and out.
Humor, we need more of it, not less.
